标题：星云法师：佛光菜根谭之生活

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星云法师：佛光菜根谭之生活一等婆媳：如母女般的亲密二等婆媳：如朋友般的尊重三等婆媳：如君臣般的严肃劣等婆媳：如冤家般的相聚Thefirst-raterelationshipbetweenmother-in-lawanddaughter-in-lawisliketheintimaterelationshipbetweenmotheranddaughter.

Thesecond-raterelationshipbetweenmother-in-lawanddaughter-in-lawisliketherespectfulrelationshipbetweenfriends.

Thethird-raterelationshipbetweenmother-in-lawanddaughter-in-lawisliketheimperiousrelationshipofqueentosubject.

Thefourth-raterelationshipbetweenmother-in-lawanddaughter-in-lawisthespitefulrelationshipoftwoenemies.

一等父母：爱念子女，教以圣贤之道二等父母：供给无乏，帮助成家立业三等父母：溺爱宠信，任其游荡非为劣等父母：不教不养，经常凌虐施暴Thefirst-rteparentslovetheirchildrenandtraintheminthewayofsages.

Thesecond-rateparentsprovidefortheirchildren'sneedsandhelpthemestablishfamiliesandbusinesses.

Thethird-rateparentspampertheirchildrenandleavethemtoidleaway.

Thefourth-rateparentsdonottraintheirchildren,butratheroftenmistreatthem.

一等儿女：孝悌恭敬，晨昏定省二等儿女：供亲所需，敬业乐业三等儿女：游闲疏懒，结交损友劣等儿女：作奸犯科，忤亲逆伦Thefirst-ratechildrenshowfilialpietyandaddresstheirparentsmorningandevening.

Thesecond-ratechildrenworkhardtofulfilltheirparents'needs.

Thethird-ratechildrenarelazyandmakefriendswithbadpeople.

Thefourth-ratechildrendobadthinganddisobeytheirparents.

一等丈夫，幽默说笑，助理家务二等丈夫，喝茶看报，赞美太太三等丈夫，气势凌人，嫌东嫌西劣等丈夫，在外交际，游荡不归Thefirst-ratehusbandhasasenseofhumorandhelpswithchores.

Thesecond-ratehusbandenjoysteawithhisnewspaper,andpraiseshiswifeconstantly.

Thethird-ratehusbandisabullyandcomplainer.

Thefourth-ratehusbandrevelswithfriendsandreturnshomelate.

一等太太，治家整洁，贤慧有德二等太太，慰问丈夫，赞美辛劳三等太太，唠叨不休，嫌怪家事劣等太太，搬是弄非，制造事端Thefirst-ratewifeisvirtuousandkeepsaneathome.

Thesecond-ratewifecomfortsandpraisesherhusband.

Thethird-ratewifeisanagandcomplainer.

Thefourth-ratewifegossipsandmakestrouble.

一等出家人：发菩提心，行菩萨道二等出家人：发出离心，安分守道三等出家人：攀缘世情，俗不可耐劣等出家人：自私自利，不守清规Thefirst-ratemonasticehaveBodhimindsandwalkthepathoftheBodhisattva.

Thesecond-ratemonasticsaspiretobedetachedfromworldlyaffairs,law-abiding,andcontent.

Thethird-ratemonasticsarevulgar,andinclinedtoworldlyaffairs.

Thefourth-ratemonasticsareselfish,andrejectpureprecepts.

一等信徒：恭敬三宝，助宣文教二等信徒：护法卫僧，正知正见三等信徒：贡高我慢，自赞毁他劣等信徒：正邪不分，谤僧毁法Thefirst-ratedevoteeshonortheTripleGemandhelpspreadBuddhistteachingandeducation.

Thesecond-ratedevoteessheltertheDharmaandtheSanghaoutofrightunderstandingofBuddhism.

Thethird-ratedevoteesarrogantlypraisethemselveswhileslanderingothers.

Thefourth-ratedevoteescannottellthetruefromthecorrupt,butslandertheSanghaandtheDharma.

一等主管：关怀员工，尊重专业二等主管：信任授权，人性管理三等主管：官僚作风，气势凌人劣等主管：疑心猜忌，不通人情Thefirst-ratemanagerscarefortheirworkersandrespecttheirskills.

Thesecond-ratemanagerstrusttheirworkerstodotheirjobs.

Thethird-ratemanagersarearrogantbureaucrats.

Thefourth-ratemanagersarejealous,suspicious,andinconsiderate.

一等员工：敬业乐群，忠勤作务二等员工：认真负责，无愧操守三等员工：偷懒怠情，胡混时光劣等员工：制造事端，损人利己Thefirst-rateemployeesrespecttheirjobsandco-workers,andareloyalanddiligentinperformance.

Thesecond-rateemployeesworkhardandresponsibly,andaremoralintheirconduct.

Thethird-rateemployeesarelazyandwastetime.

Thefourth-rateemployeesinciteconflictsfortheirowngainbutothers'harm.

一等同事：互相尊重，推敬其能二等同事：合作无间，互补互信三等同事：孤僻独行，自以为是劣等同事：兴风作浪，破坏好事Thefirst-ratecolleaguesrespectandcommendeachother'sabilities.

Thesecond-ratecolleaguesworkwelltogether,trustingandhelpingeachother.

Thethird-ratecolleaguesareegocentriclonerswhoscorntheopinionsofothers.

Thefourth-ratecolleaguesaretrouble-makerswhounderminetheachievementsofothers.

一等朋友：规过劝善，教以正道二等朋友：患难与共，砌磋互勉三等朋友：趋炎附势，以势利交劣等朋友：吃喝玩乐，朋比为奸Thefirst-ratefriendshelpcorrectyourmistakesbyshowingyoutherightpath.

Thesecond-ratefriendsencourageyouandstaywithyouinadversity.

Thethird-ratefriendshangoninfluentialpeopleandaresnobstoalltherest.

Thefourth-ratefriendsaredissolute,andleadtherestastray.

一等医师：术德兼备，视病如亲二等医师：医术高明，不耐询问三等医师：纯为工作，毫无悲心劣等医师：态度轻忽，草菅人命Thefirst-ratedoctorsareskilledandvirtuous,andtreattheirpatientslikefamily.

Thesecond-ratedoctors,thoughskilled,don'ttoleratetheirpatients'queries.

Thethird-ratedoctorsarewithoutcompassion.

Thefourth-ratedoctorsarecarelessandindifferenttohumanlife.

一等护士：温和耐烦，悉心照顾二等护士：按时巡视，不亏职守三等护士：公事公办，不耐厌烦劣等护士：晚娘面孔，脾气暴躁Thefirst-ratenursesarekindanduncomplaining,andcarewellforpatients.

Thesecond-ratenursesdiligentlywatchthewards.

Thethird-ratenurseslackpatienceandworkstrictlybytherules.

Thefourth-ratenursesarecrabby,likestepmothers.

一等官员：勤政爱民，理性沟通二等官员：操守清廉，洁身自爱三等官员：吹牛拍马，党派营私劣等官员：公器私用，仗势欺人Thefirst-rateofficialsarediligentadministratorswhocareaboutpeopleandkeeptheminformed.

Thesecond-rateofficialsconscientiouslyshieldthemselvesfromcorruption.

Thethird-rateofficialsboastandflatter,andconspiretoreapthefruitsofself-interest.

Thefourth-rateofficialsarebullieswhousepublicpropertyfortheirowngain.

一等秘书：主管所需，了若指掌二等秘书：主管交待，及时配合三等秘书：随时提醒，犹常误事劣乖秘书：心不在焉，有错不改Thefirst-ratesecretariesanticipatetheirbosses'needs.

Thesecond-ratesecretariesexecutetheirbosses'instructions.

Thethird-ratesecretariesmakemanymistakes,andmustalwaysbeadmonished.

Thefourth-ratesecretariesforgeteverythingandnevercorrecttheirmistakes.

一等律师：尽己所能，仗义伸冤二等律师：态度亲切，主动解疑三等律师：只为赚钱，敷衍塞责劣等律师：见钱眼开，罔顾道德Thefirst-ratelawyersaredevotedtojusticeandthedismissaloffalsecharges.

Thesecond-ratelawyersaredevotedtotheirclients,andstrivetosolvetheirproblems.

Thethird-ratelawyerscareonlyforthepay,andcan'twaittogethome.

Thefourth-ratelawyershavelosttheirhonorinthestruggleforpersonalgain.

一等警察：见义勇为，亲民爱民二等警察：尽忠职守，认真负责三等警察：上班下班，人事周到劣等警察：官腔十足，欺压善良Thefirst-ratepolicearebraveandlovethepeople.

Thesecond-ratepolicearehonestandhard-working.

Thethird-ratepolicejustpunchaclockandgetalongbygoingalong.

Thefourth-ratepolicearebulliesandbureaucrats.

一等传媒：正面报导，启迪人心二等传媒：报导如实，客观公正三等传媒：捕风捉影，主观偏颇劣等传媒：扭曲事实，哗众取宠Thefirst-ratemediafileupliftingreportsthatmakepeoplehappy.

Thesecond-ratemediafilereportsthatareobjectiveandfair.

Thethird-ratemediafilereportsthataresubjectiveandunsubstantiated.

Thefourth-ratemediadistorttruthtogainattentionandfavor.

一等店员：老少无欺，顾主第一二等店员：认真负责，服务亲切三等店员：态度冷淡，爱理不理劣等店员：见到客人，就像债主Thefirst-rateshopclerkstreatcustomersasguests,andnevercheat.

Thesecond-rateshopclerksareearnestandkind.

Thethird-rateshopclerksarecoldandindifferent.

Thefourth-rateshopclerkstreatcustomerslikebeggars.

一等司机：安全整洁，守法礼让二等司机：快慢得宜，遵守号志三等司机：只会开车，不重规则劣等司机：喜怒情绪，横冲直撞Thefirst-ratedriversarecareful,tidy,law-abiding,andcourteous.

Thesecond-ratedriversobeysignanddrivesafely.

Thethird-ratedriversignoretherules.

Thefourth-ratedriversareemotionalanderratic.

一等导游：常识丰富，热情介绍二等导游：平实亲切，定点解说三等导游：不苟言笑，所知有限劣等导游：冷漠无趣，不知所云Thefirst-ratetouristguidesknowtheirsubjectandtakeinterestintheirclients.

Thesecond-ratetouristguidesarekindandopen,andexplaineverything.

Thethird-ratetouristguidesknowlittleandcareless.

Thefourth-ratetouristguidesareunintelligible,cold,anddour.

一等厨师：兼管六口锅，气定神闲二等厨师：一人四个灶，犹能谈笑三等厨师：照顾二个炉，得需助手劣等厨师：只管一炉灶，手忙脚乱Thefirst-ratecookscanmanagesixstoveswithoutstress.

Thesecond-ratecookscanmanagefourstovesandtelljokes.

Thethird-ratecookscanmanagetwostoveswithhelp.

Thefourth-ratecookscanbarelymanageonestove.

一等义工：谦虚热诚，真心奉献二等义工：耐劳耐烦，完成任务三等义工：玩票性质，没有信义劣等义工：态度恶劣，沽名钓誉Thefirst-ratevolunteersaremodest,warm,anddedicated.

Thesecond-ratevolunteersarepatientandhard-working.

Thethird-ratevolunteersareindifferentandbreakpromises.

Thefourth-ratevolunteersaremaliciousandinsulting.

一等人：很能干，也没有脾气二等人：很能干，但脾气很大三等人：不能干，也没有脾气劣等人：不能干，脾气却很大Thefirst-ratepeoplearecapableandeven-tempered.

Thesecond-ratepeoplearecapablebuthot-tempered.

Thethird-ratepeoplearenotcapablebuteven-tempered.

一等国家，国富民富二等国家，国穷民富三等国家，国富民穷劣等国家，国穷民穷Thefirst-ratecountryanditspeoplearerich.

Thesecond-ratecountryispoor,whilethepeoplearerich.

Thethird-ratecountryisrich,whilethepeoplearepoor.

Thefourth-ratecountryanditspeoplearepoor.

一等的学习：自己教育自己二等的学习：朋友互相砥砺三等的学习：等着老师教导劣等的学习：拒绝所有言教Thefirst-ratelearningisself-motivated.

Thesecond-ratelearningcomesoftheencouragementoffriends.

Thethird-ratelearningwaitsfortherightteacher.

Thefourth-ratelearningrejectsallschooling.

一等根器的人，凭着崇高理想而行事二等根器的人，凭着常识经验而工作三等根器的人，凭着自己需要而生活劣等根器的人，凭着损人利己而苟存Thefirst-ratepeopleactwithsublimeideals.

Thesecond-ratepeopleactwithcommonsenseaccordingtotheirexperiences.

Thethird-ratepeopleactaccordingtotheirneedsanddesires.

Thefourth-ratepeopleacttohurtothers.

有慈悲有智慧，是一等人有慈悲无智慧，是二等人有智慧无慈悲，是三等人无慈悲无智慧，是劣等人Thefirst-ratepeoplearecompassionateandintelligent.

Thesecond-ratepeoplearecompassionatebutnotintelligent.

Thethird-ratepeopleareintelligentbutnotcompassionate.

Thefourth-ratepeopleareneithercompassionatenorintelligent.

儿女有慈母的教育这是人生最幸福的事情丈夫有贤妻的扶持这是世间最美满的境界学生有良师的栽培这是前途最有力的助缘老师有英才的传授这是学界最美好的佳话Bestforchildren:amother'stranining.

Bestforahusband:hiswife'ssupport.

Bestcausesandconditionsforastudent:educationbyamaster.

Besthappinessforateacher:aformerstudent'seminence.

公婆的微笑，是子孙的太阳儿女的音声，是父母的音乐妻子的爱语，是丈夫的和风丈夫的臂膀，是全家的依靠Voicesofchildrenaremusictoparents.

Grandchildrenglowinthelaughterofgrandparents.

Wives'endearmentsthedawnbreezeforhusbands.

Fathers'embracearefugeforfamilies.

学习欢喜，会成为一个「欢喜佛」学习自在，会成为一个「自在佛」学习包容，会成为一个「包容佛」学习圆通，会成为一个「圆通佛」LearntobehappytobecomeahappyBuddha.

LearntobecarefreetobecomeacarefreeBuddha.

LearntobetoleranttobecomeatolerantBuddha.

LearntobefriendlytobecomeafriehdlyBuddha.

夫妻不和是儿女的不幸兄弟阋墙是父母的伤痛员工相争是企业的损失人民斗乱是国家的悲哀Ithurtschildrenwhenparentsareatodds.

Ithurtsparentswhenchildrenquarrel.

Ithurtsabusinesswhenemployeesfight.

Ithurtsthenationwhencitizensarediscontent.

感情的交流，以公理正义为原则语言的沟通，以体谅包容为雅量人我的相处，以不违情理为自然金钱的运用，以量入为出为正常Actwithrighteousness.

Speakwithtolerance.

Befriendlyandbehaverationally.

Donotspendmorethanyouhave.

人生，不惧艰辛，要攀峰越岭人生，不怕疲累，要跋山涉水人生，不惜身命，要出生入死人生，不计危难，要赴汤蹈火Don'tbeafraidofhardship:transcendit.

Don'tbeafraidofexhaustion:keepgoing.

Don'tbeafraidofdanger:bedaring.

Don'tbeafraidofdying:seizeyourchance.

一切事业的成功，端赖人和的沟通沟通人和的要点，必须彼此的互重Businesssuccessrequiresharmonywithothers.

Thekeytoharmonyismutualrespect.

看地理不如看心理看地理不如重伦理看地理不如讲道理盾地理不如信真理Itisbettertocultivatethemind,empha-sizemoralprinciples,berational,andbelieveinthetruththantoseekadvicefromafortune-teller.

平心静气，心情自然好虚心谦下，人缘自然好Patienceandtranquilitybringgoodfeelings.

Modestybringsgoodaffinity.

得理而能饶人，是谓厚道厚道则路宽无理而又损人，是谓霸道霸道则路窄Ifyouarerightandforgiving,youarevirtuous;virtuebroadensyourscope.

Ifyouarewrongandquarrelsome,youarebullying;bullyingnarrowsyourscope.

「讲清楚，说明白」是人际相处的妙方「改心性，革陋习」是自我进步的动力Makingeverythingclearismagicwaytogetalongwithpeople.

Transformingyourbadhabitsandthoughtsacceleratesyourprogress.

如得人意，却不得我意如得我意，却不得人意要得人如我意，除非我如人意人人所得如意，大家万事如意Tomakeothershappy,wemayhavetosuffer.

Tomakeushappy,othersmayhavetosuffer.

Makeothershappybeforewemakeourselveshappy.

Ifeverybodyishappy,allwillbewell.

毋争利而伤兄弟手足之天伦毋自私而断亲朋挚友之情谊毋贪吝而弃天道圣贤之仁慈毋暴戾而坏国家社会之祥和Don'tfightyourbrothersandsistersforadvantage.

Don'thurtfriendsandfamilyfromselfishness.

Don'tdenyothersthecompassionofthesagesoutofyourgreedandstinginess.

Don'tdamagetheharmonyofsocietyandcountrybyviolentacts.

做事要有计划用钱要有预算修学要有目标未来要有希望Makeaplanbeforeyouact.

Makeabudgetbeforeyouusethemoney.

Setagoalbeforeyoupractice.

Haveahopeforthefuture.

就事论事，这是用人的原则通情达理，这是处世的准则荣辱与共，这是交友的法则生死无惧，这是生活的理则Thewaytotreatpeopleistobefair.

Thewaytoliveistobeintelligentandrational.

Thewaytomakefriendsistosharetheirhonorandhumiliation.

Thewaytocarryonisnottofearlifeordeath.

在物质上能淡泊，则不为形役在心性上能淡泊，则不为情困在名利上能淡泊，则不为世迁在情感上能淡泊，则不为境转Whenyouaredetachedfrompossessions,fromnameandgain,frompassionsandtroubledthoughts,youwon'tbediscouragedbywhatmaycome.

宽可以容人厚可以载物勤可以补拙俭可以却贫Magnanimityleadstotolerance.

Toleranceleadstoresponsibleactions.

Diligenceletsyoureachyourgoal.

Frugalitywillmakeyourich.

有德，人必尊之有功，人必崇之有容，人必附之有量，人必从之Withvirtue,youwillberespected.

Withachievements,youwillbeadored.

Withmagnanimity,youwillbeacclaimed.

Withtolerance,youwillbefollowed.

遇事忍为妙，忍能解灾厄处世善为宝，善能增福报Patienceisamagicwaytobanishdisaster.

Kindnessisamagicwaytoincreaseyourmerits.

懂得做事的人，要做「本份事」懂得做人的人，要做「本份人」Thosewhounderstandbusinessperformwell.

Thosewhounderstandhowtogetalongbehavewell.

勤奋不故意拖延忍耐不顾忌怯弱勇敢不过度自责放下不计较得失Workdiligentlyanddon'tprocrastinate.

Bepatientthoughyoumaybethoughtcowardly.

Bebraveanddon'tblameyourselftoomuch.

Bedetachedandsurrednergainandloss.

居家要选好邻旅行要选好伴求知要选善书励行要选益友Choosegoodneightborsforliving.

Choosegoodcompanionsfortravel.

Choosegoodbooksforknowledge.

Choosegoodfriendsforpractice.

世道坎坷，靠一「耐」字能通行人心难测，靠一「诚」字能知交Whenlifeishard,patiencehelps.

Whenpeoplearehardtofigureout,honestyhelpswinintimatefriends.

饮食八分饱，精神才会好讲话留三分，日后好相见Tostayingood,spirts,don'tovereat.

Togetalong,don'tspeakharshlyofothers.

赞誉之词可于人后言，闻者心喜批评之话当于人前说，可免是非Praisingpeoplebehindtheirbacksmakesthemhappy.

Criticizingpeopletotheirfacesavoidsgossip.

多一个朋友，自然少一个敌人多一分努力，自然少一分挫败Onemorefriendisonelessenemy.

Adayofhardworkisadayofsatisfaction.

红花必须要有绿叶的陪衬才能显出整体的美感明月必须要有众星的点缀才能表现夜色的美丽主管必须要有属下的拥护才能发挥集体的创作个人必须要有大众的性格才能开展全面的人生Aredflowerneedsgreenleavestodisplaythetree'sbeauty.

Abrightmoonneedsaseaofstarstodisplaythenight'sbeauty.

Abossneedstogethissubordinatesworkingtogethertogetthejobdone.

Apersonneedsthecouragetoembracethemulititudetoenjoyafulllife.

冷静倾听，不只增加知识而且受人欢迎空谈闲论，不只令人生厌而且暴己之短Patientlisteningexpandsyourknowledgeandmakesyouwelcome.

Emptytalkandgossipshowyourshortcomingsandmakeyouunwelcome.

发心行道，自能聚合善缘热心助人，自能累积经验Aspiringtopracticeandcultivationhelpsaccumulategoodcausesandconditions.

Readinesstohelpbroadensyourexperience.

物质的苦乐没有标准心中的自在才有价值成功的定义因人而异道德的圆成才是重要Acarefreemindismorevaluedthanpleasure.

Virtueismorevaluedthansuccessinbusiness.

「回响」是传达心意最动听的音声「附和」是表现善意最美好的礼物Feedbackisneededafteryousaywhatyouthink.

Unanimityisthebestsignofagoodreception.

宁与君子理论，莫与小人计较宁与智者吵架，不与愚者论道Bettertodealwithavirtuousthanameanperson.

Bettertodebateawisethanafoolishperson.

年年不忘春耕，自然能够秋收时时不离助人，自然能得人助念念不起恶心，自然没有业果处处不搅人我，自然没有是非Springplantingleadstoautumanharvest.

Yourhelpinghandalwaysgainshelpfromothers.

Noevilmind:nokarmicretribution.

Nodiscrimination:nogossip.

静下来聆听对方的音声是「沟通」的秘方动起来帮助对方的需要是「谈判」的筹码Listeningisthekeytocommunicating.

Helpingisthekeytonegotiating.

海军要与恶浪博斗陆军要在沙场奋战空军要冒飞弹袭击装甲要能后方供输全民要有心理武装Navyfightsonthesea.

Armyfightsontheland.

Airforcefightsinthesky.

Allarmedforcesdefendagainstattack.

Logisticalforcessupplythefrontlines.

Allthepeoplemustbementallyarmed.

不愁物质的匮乏，但做心灵的富翁不怕世间的贫苦，但做自在的主人Don'tworryaboutscarcity:berichinyourmind.

Don'tworryaboutpoverty:beyourownmaster.

儿童是家庭未来的希望少年是国家未来的主人青年是人间未来的栋梁老年是社会未来的典范Chilrenarethehopeofthefamily.

Youthwillbetheleadersofthecountry.

Youngmenandwomenwillbetheeliteoftheworld.

Theelderlywillbethemodelsforsociety.

肯定自己，才能向前尊重别人，才有助缘Self-recognitionhelpsusmoveforward.

Respectingothershelpsusobtainfavorableconditions.

参学，参了还要学学问，学了要会问Whenyouvisitanewplace,trytolearnaboutit.

Askingquestions,youwilllearn.

除非不学，要学就要学会否则绝不放弃除非不问，要问就要问懂否则绝不放弃除非不想，要想就要想通否则绝不放弃除非不知，要知就要知透否则绝不放弃Unlessyoudon'twanttolearn,learndeeplyandneverquit.

Unlessyoudon'twantananswer,demandananswerandneverquit.

Unlessyoudon'twanttothink,thinkuntilyouunderstandandneverquit.

Unlessyoudon'twanttoknow,knowitwellandneverquit.

决心可以使人不致半途而废毅力可以使人走上成功之路Determinationhelpsyoureachyourgoal.

Perseveranceleadstosuccess.

从长相来判断一个人不如从所学来判断一个人从所学来判断一个人不如从心志来判断一个人Judgepeoplebytheirthoughts,nottheirsmiles.

Judgepeoplebytheirintent,nottheirthoughts.

没有机会的时候，广结善缘机会来的临的时候，及时掌握Whenthereisnothingtodo,atleastmakegoodaffinitywithothers.

Butwhenthechancecomestoact,seizeit.

幼儿时，要重视礼貌的习惯长大后才能受人喜爱年轻时，要学会看书的习惯年老时才容易度日中年时，要培养修行的习惯生活中才能懂得去来老年时，要懂得保健的习惯晨昏里才能照顾自己Trainingchildrenincourtesymakesthemwelcomeadults.

Teachingchildrentoreadcomfortstheiroldage.

Cultivatepracticeinmiddleagetolivewell.

Careforyourselfnowtolivenealthyinoldage.

处世要有大无畏的勇敢行事要有大格局的前瞻做人要有大气度的担当修行要有不退转的精神Conductyourselfwithcourage.

Dobusinesswithvision.

Shoulderyourresponsibilitytosociety.

Alwayspractice.

温言鼓舞，是最大的上进动力包容谅解，是最佳的知心良友Tenderencouragementmovespeoplefarther.

Toleranceandunderstandingareintimatefriends.

事烦莫惧，可以化繁就简是非莫辩，可以改非为真操守莫亏，可以清廉自持因果莫负，可以事理一如Don'tbeafraidofcomplexaffairs;simplifythem.

Don'targuewhenwronged;changewrongtoright.

Bediscreetandincorruptible.

Followthelawofcausalitytorealizethetruth.

以平常心面对世事以欢喜心学习接受以服务心和人结缘以感恩心回馈社会Facetheworldwithapeacefulmind.

Acceptadversitywithjoyinyourmind.

Makeaffinitywithamindtoserveothers.

Repaysocietywithagratefulmind.

团结必能和谐，和谐必须团结分工必须合作，合作要能分工Unityleadstoharmony;harmonyrequiresunity.

Doingyourjobwellrequiresthatyoucooperate;thecooperationofothersletsyoudoyourjobwell.

日记，是一个人生活的轨辙日记，是一个人成长的写照日记，是一个人经验的记载日记，是一个人生命的历史Adiaryisthemapofyourlife.

Adiaryisthechartofyourgrowth.

Adiaryistherecordofyourexperience.

Adiaryisthehistoryofyourpast.

凡事不可过份希望于人必须穷身力行，方能有济凡事不可过份执着于己必须集思广益，才能成功Don'tdependonothers:relyonyourselfforsuccess.

Don'tbestubborn:tosucceed,getotheropinions.

常以「尊敬」「信实」与上司沟通，下情自能上达能以「尊重」、「信任」与部属往来，上令必能下行Respectyourbosswhenyoumusttalktohim.

Respectyoursubordinates,andtrustthemtocarryoutorders.

为自求进步应该以「养气」代替「怨气」为成就事业应该以「和气」代替「意气」Tosucceedinlife,cultivatespirtualityinsteadofcomplaint.

Tosucceedinbusiness,cultivateharmonyinsteadofpassion.

过多的爱护并非不好但要受得起也给得起受得起不会给人失望给得起不会辜负人意Toomuchcaringisnotnecessarilybad,butoneshouldknowhowtoreceiveandtogive.

Beingabletoreceive,youencourageothers;beingabletogive,yousatisfyothers.

少年要有礼赞生命的感恩青年要有自觉信念的价值壮年要有活水源头的精进老年要有欢喜生活的平静Childrenshouldpraiseandbegratefulforlife.

Youthshouldawakentothevalueoffaith.

Youngmenandwomenshouldgushlikeafountain.

Theelderlyshouldenjoyatranquillife.

人生最大的福报，莫如无病康健处世最大的乐事，莫如无事免难Theluckiestthingistobehealthy.

Thehappiestthingistobesecure.

对财物要有惜福、惜情、惜缘的珍惜之心对事物要有尽善、尽美、尽心的无愧之念Wemustcherishpropertyaswedomerit,loveandsentiment,andaffinity.

Wemustmanageourbusinesswelltoavoidregrets.

做事要发心开发心地才能生长万物待人要慈悲与慈行悲才能得到人缘Ambitioninbusinesscanincreasemeritandvirtue.

Treatingpeoplewithcompassionmakesforgoodrelationships.

思想要有活见解做事须下死工夫Thinkingrequiresfreshideas.

Workingrequiresrealeffort.

越多做，越能做越会忙，越能忙Themoreyoudo,themoreyoucando.

Thebusieryouare,thebusieryoucanbe.

身体有病，要靠医生来诊疗心灵生病，要靠自己来医治Illnessiscuredbyadoctor.

Madnessiscuredbyyourself.

为人要有品德做事要有品质立业要有品格生活要有品味Tobehavewell,bemoral.

Tohandleaffairs,begood.

Toconductbusiness,beupright.

Tolivewell,havegoodtaste.

为人之德只在「谦让」修身之道只在「正派」行善之要只在「喜舍」朋友之交只在「情义」Thehighestvirtueismodesty.

Thewayofpracticeisrighteousness.

Thekeytogooddeedsisgenerosity.

Thekeytomakingfriendsiskindnessandjustice.

过份节俭者，会给人指为吝啬过份谦让者，会给人讥为畏缩过份胆小者，会给人评为卑贱过份快速者，会给人认为马虎Toomuchfrugalityiscalledstinginess.

Toomuchmodestyiscalledprudery.

Toomuchcautioniscalledtimidity.

Toolittlecautioniscalledrecklessness.

勤则家兴懒则家倾俭则家富奢则家贫Diligencemakesafamilywealthy.

Lazinessmakesafamilydecline.

Frugalitymakesafamilyprosper.

Extravagancemakesafamilypoor.

俭朴是穷人的财富俭朴是富人的智慧俭仆是治国的要件俭朴是廉洁的品德Thriftbringsfortunetothepoor.

Thriftisthevirtueoftherich.

Thriftisessentialtorulingacountry.

Thriftisavirtuethatcannotbecorrupted.

处事依据道理行为遵循伦理做人要能讲理学道须究真理Inbusiness,beprincipled.

Insociety,beethical.

Togetalong,bereasonable.

TopracticeBuddhism,learnthetruth.

委屈自己，才能跟人团结自我牺牲，才能跟人合作Tounite,compromise.

Toworkwithothers,beflexible.

用容颜表达欢喜用双肩担当责任用微笑美化人生用胸怀包容一切Showhappinesswithyourexpression.

Bearresponsibilitieswithyourshoulders.

Makeabetterlifewithyoursmile.

Embracetheworldwithyourheart.

在发怒的时候有慈悲的心肠在慈悲的时候有发怒的认真在拥有的时候有喜舍的个性在喜舍的时候有拥有的感受Whenyouareangry,alsobecompassionate.

Whenyouarecompassionate,alsobeserious.

Whenyouownsomething,youcanenjoygiving.

Whenyoupracticejoyfulgiving,youcanfeelyouownsomething.

若能以「牛马」精神服务大众必为大家尊敬若能以「龙象」姿态成就事业必为社会中坚Ifweserveotherslikecattleorhorses,wewillberespected.

Ifwesucceedinbusinesslikethedragonorelephant,wecanbesociety'selite.

面对苦恼时，不要伤心流泪要以悲愤为力量面对委屈时，不要叹息失望要以忍耐为担当面对诱惑时，不要虚荣迷茫要以禅定为舟航面对荣耀时，不要患得患失要以克制为良方Facingtrouble,don'tbesadandweep,buttransformsorrowtostrength.

Facinggrievance,don'tsighandbedisappointed,butshoulderitwithpatience.

Facingtemptation,don'tbelost,butsailonwithmeditation,andmindfulness.

Facinghonor,don'tcalculategainorloss,butberestrained.

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发布时间：2025-03-14 09:01:01
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